Every time I see someone promoting this concept, that parenting is a job that both parents should do or that keeping a relationship strong is something both partners should do.., I share it out. Here’s a great post on the subject:
Chris Rock said something in one of his comedy routines that makes a lot of sense paraphrasing:“I can’t stand it when people expect praise for stuff they’re supposed to do. For example, when people say, ‘I ain’t never been to jail!’ What do you want, a cookie?! You’re not supposed to go to jail, you low-expectation-having motherfucker!”
From The Incredibly Low Bar – Daddy Doin Work and you should go there and read his other posts.